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Life Changing

Tiffany Griego

English composition

                              
                                                Life changing 

        Everyone has a life changing moment that can either reflex upon you in a negative way

or positive way. A time in my life Iv’e come to my seance’s was a life and death situation that

accursed in my family. My closest grandmother had passed away when I was at the age of 18,

years old. She was the closest family relative Iv’e come to thresher dearly in my heart. She was

a wonderful, caring most hubble person I’d ever known. I can remember the times of hardship

that became an infection in my life or the memorable memories I shared with her. She was like

my mother you can say someone who automatically can open you up with out a force of

explanation.

           It was that time I looked at life in a way to really appreciate those I truly care for around

me. My grandmother by the name of, Bea G. was only 70 years old when she had passed away

from lung cancer. A highly nicotine object that kills billions of people as time goes by now,

cigarettes. She was a chain smoker there wouldn’t be a moment I’d see here with our a cigarette

in her hand. Even so that I knew what the effects where and how highly life risking it was

to people I was unable to put a stop to her bad habit. 

             I can remember times I’ve tried to explain to her the effects of smoking how if effects the

body and lungs. It’s was difficult to explain to someone who’s been smoking most there lives,

Its almost as if I were explaining to a child of playing with there food. Though I loved her so

and cared about her health there were times I would see new packs of cigarettes lying around. My
only attempt was to trash them away as if they were never seen lying around. Though at times

trying to convince her and the changes that became exitance to my attention she was getting

ill.

         I couldn’t imagine the feeling of seeing her pass away from her bad habits in a way I began

to chance myself. Becoming so caring and giving her the attention she needed and help to be sure
she’d attend her doctor appointments for check up. I was believing I was becoming her mother as
she was towards myself. An unbearable feeling I held upon me wishing I  had a cure to remove

all the damage and affection in her lungs. Though Im no, God to have the power to cure my

grandmother, but I had to except reality that she was dieing.

            It’s everyones fear is losing that someone special in your life though all we can do is hope

and come to our prayers for those to get well. With all the coughing and grasping for air hearing

her wheezing as she’d walk around. Its was a matter of time that I knew deep down inside her

life line was close to an end. A day that I was a work was when I had received a phone call from

my mother explaining that my grandmother was at the, St. Jhons hospital. My heart dropped

unable to hold myself together at work I had broken down in tiers. I was dismissed from my

work to attend the hospital where my grandmother was rested for recovery. When I had arrived

at the hospital rushing inside I asked what room my grandmother was in. As I had found the

room I began to cry holding her begging her to, “ quit smoking.”

             There was nothing I could do feeling so helpless and sorrow inside It was now up to the

nurses and doctors to watch other my grandmother. She was held there for a week straight

because of her condition, but then after my family had gotten the notice that she wasn’t

going to live much longer. I couldn’t handle anymore of what was going on or what was

about to happen, by the time I knew It she had passed away the next morning. Though I loved her

so I had A change in heart to encourage those who need help those who are blinded by there

bad habits. She will always have that effect and impact in my life  of being the voice

that will be heard  a voice of help. 

Childhood family Divorce

         



            What exactly is divorce? When two people get married, they're making a promise to stay together forever, and in most cases, start a family. But sometimes a marriage that starts out great can turn bad over time.No marriage is perfect, and most husbands and wives go through tough times. The world can be a difficult place, and there are all kinds of reasons why parents get mad at each other or start arguing. Most of the time, moms and dads find a way to work through the problem, and things get better. So if you hear shouting or sense tension, don't automatically assume that divorce is on the way. Though id tell myself so oblivious not knowing what exactly what was going on between both my parents. I assumed everything was going well that my family was normal like everyone else’s.  
            My parents were very young in love as I was told, my mother was eight teen when she gave birth to me. As a child being raised by young parents that where struggling to balance school,work and being a family came to be over well ming. Not having a clue what was truly going on between both my parents growing up it had come down to my scenes. They weren’t getting along always fighting every time id walk around the house trying to distract myself from all the yelling. Id remember my father leaving my mother and I alone at the house storming out that he no longer loved my mother. As my mother dropped on her knees crying, “Why is this happening to me!” Id go toward her an hung her saying, “Are you ok mommy.” She’d looked at me apologizing for having to see them fight, though I had nothing to say.
         All I’ve begun to understand is  If the arguments last a long time and your parents can't find a way to make things better, they might decide that getting a divorce is the best thing, or the only thing, to do. At some point, they'll have to tell you what's going on, and they'll talk to you about their plans to divorce. If this happens, you have to understand that things are serious. You can't pretend it's not going to happen, and you can't just wish it away. It all became a highly effective moment in my life having to understand this was all reality. As my first experience going to a counselor having to express my feelings and thought i was told  It's perfectly normal for you to want your parents to get back together. Many kids going though a divorce wish for this at some point. But when you cling to the hope that your parents will make up or get remarried, it can make things worse. Things usually go much better if you understand that your parent's decision to divorce is a permanent one. From there, you can move on and find ways to deal with your new life, instead of wishing for your old one back.
               Life was  tough at for myself, even when you're living with both of your parents. You might not want to have to face living with one parent, or dividing your time between two different households. It was difficult  for me to see this, but sometimes having one happy parent, or two parents who are separate but happy, is a lot better than having two completely miserable parents. Id feel at times the effects of my parents  divorce can change virtually every aspect of my  feelings including where a person lives, with whom they live with, their standard of living, their emotional happiness, their assets and liabilities, time spent with either of them , and so much more.
       I could remember the time when my counselor would read my a book about, how children will benefit greatly if you can help them find healthy ways to work through their feelings. How You can encourage them to make drawings or paintings of their family to help you cope with your inner self. In a way it became helpful to  express my feelings through drawings. Another way to get the divorce of my mind as Young child often work through their feelings was by interacting with other children. I was beginning to grow interest in picking up a book and reading every night to put myself to sleep. However, just getting  to open up  with my counselor  helped  move on in managing my feelings. Till this day Im able to see and understand what my parents were going threw though times I could bare seeing them fight in my presents. I truly love them equally they were young in love and not prepare for commitment and responsibilities. They were children them self’s still growing up trying to figure out the paths they wanted to fallow in the future.  
          My parents are still divorced till this day though for my exitance they’v grown to become friends. In a way of there friendship I feel at times there is that little spark between them both. What if they were to give each other that chance now that they have there lives together. Though i could keep wondering at times how our lives would be if it were to happen maybe things were meant to be this way. You can never predict the future,but I believe you can make things happen if you truly want to by taking that chance. 

How Healthy are our foods?

                                                    How Healthy are our foods

             When it comes to foods many of us lose that control factor of what is healthiest.Fast foods is known to be very found of across the world nation. Mc.Donald’s, Jack in the Box,Taco Bell and many more. That was the issue that came across  in my family, my mother always had our days she’d treat us out. As a kid I always enjoy’d eating, Mc.Donald’s being able to get a hold of a, “Happy meal!” I for one was most fond of it came with a few selection including a toy inside,but the older I’ve gotten I have begun to gain weigh. As fast food became a self craving addition in my life I no longer had control of my body. Stages of emotions came to effect being picked on for being over weight and at a path of diabetes. I looked at myself one day a being aware of what would happen if i continued to have those bad habits. Its was frightening so I mad the choice to change my ways and live a healthier life style. I’d wake up ever morning forcing myself to at least run a few miles,lifting weight and portion my food. when it came down to it i had shown progress with a different body feeling healthier then ever. I was amazed and proud of myself i could have been a victim,but I mad that choice to do something about it.In the end it pay’d off and im feeling great about myself even now.

             One thing people need to realize is that fast food can become a health risk factor.we are constantly at risk of temptation when we come across fast food joints. I believe that obesity is the new lifestyle disease of America.Sadly, sadly even children are a part of this trend.As much as fast food might sound delicious and convenient when you decide to grab a bit while in a hurry. It can really harm the body function surly,but slowly.Most of us wonder about the root cause of our excessive weight gain. Maybe the foods we eat hold the answer to our problems. So they say you are what you eat,but threw my experience of it you aren’t. It’s all the ingredients in the foods that change your body and mind set reactions and behavior. Now if you were to walk in at a fat food joint an ask for a chart of calories by law they have to. when it comes down to seeing it all people are astound of what there eating mostly disgusted. Foods with preservatives,anti biotic’s,hormones and many others not aware of. This all leads to cause of health problems as the body slowly begins to shut down  and lose its capabilities of living a normal live. So it comes down to it having a home cooked meal is as healthy as it get.

texting

                                                        Texting

   When it comes to the word texting what comes across your mind? A Cell phone that is known to grown across the world nation, know to be the handiest electrical device that can either be use full or
deadly. At the times pagers were know to be close to having a connection with one another by beeping number codes. As the years have gone by cell phones became one of the most high-tech electrical device ever know to come across. At times they were know to be a wonderful use involving business’s, work, friendship contacts and most important for emergency. People were highly convinced to buy cell phones for those reasons as well as what other capability’s the cell phones came in stock. Internet access, games, camera and last but not least text messaging had been highly popular as most people
assumed.
   In a matter of time when texting became a highly fast messaging process it also became a very deadly issue across the nation. Law enforcement was the first to discover fatal accidents involving text messing while driving. As news reporters would mention incidents involving cell phones becoming a risk factor while texting and driving laws begun to change. In most states and countries cell phones are forbidden while driving in a vehicle. If you are spotted or suspected on having one or visually able to see your already violating the  state law. It’s strictly enforced for having accidents become prevented. 
   I for one can agree that texting will only come with either a simple reply or realizing your heading front in center towards a car an could become a co lodge accident . It’s a matter of safety, and many of us should follow the rules and regulations upon texting while driving. It’s freighting enough to have the thought of waking up in a hospital caused by your mistake.

past,present,future

Past Present and Future

        At a very young age my mother had given birth to me at the age of 18 at, Ventura county Hospital. I could only remember so much, but a few things were having my mother and grandmother around. I didn’t have much of a father figure around to have boys being pushed away or watching my every step. There weren’t really much memorizing moments, but times like today were I’d be reminded by my mother. She’d mention how I’d be in my room playing with my toys or running around the house drawing all over the walls with her lip stick. From what I was told I was known as a curious girl always getting myself into things.
        In, 1989 my sister was born same hospital where my mother had given birth to me. My mother had mentioned how jalousie I was of my little sister. Thinking all the attention I’d receive from both my mother and grandmother would go to her. At the age of 6 and my sister 5 we’ve grown to be compatible, but at times we’d get ourselves into trouble. Like the time I could remember my mother walking in on us in the bath room yelling, “What in the heck are you doing to your little sister!” as she saw me poring toilet water on her head my only response was, “I’m taking her a bath she smell’s!” . My mother was doing her best to teach us what was right and wrong including our behavior as you can tell were had plenty to learn.
        As the years went by and at the age of 23, I only could remember so much of my past, but for my future reference only more is to come. I have my goals lead up for myself a path I fallow to fulfill where it is I’d like to be in the future. I plan to fallow state laws, rules and regulation making this economy a better place by becoming a police officer.  With my dream of getting a house for my mother and having her from working would only mean so much.